Well, now she’s dating her boss who is 15 years her senior. She’s told me about how she’s very open with her feelings and struggles at work, whether it comes to her strained relationship with her ex, our parents (she recently moved out of their house), or friends. I think it’s inappropriate, but apparently it’s very normal(?) at their office. This guy she is now seeing has three very young kids. She confessed her feelings to him while he was still married and seemingly had no intentions of getting a divorce. But in the few weeks since then, he has moved out, filed for divorce, and is fully dating my sister. He’s 40! And she expressed in recent months, pre-relationship, that she doesn’t want children and felt pressured by our family to do so, yet now she’s weighing being a stepmother to these young kids.
Her company has a strict policy against superiors and subordinates dating, and I believe some co-workers have caught on. But she doesn’t care because “we’re in love.” She could lose her job, a job she loves, over this. He even told her that if it came down to one of them being fired because of the relationship, she would likely be the one to get axed because she’s newer to the company. Seems like an awfully cavalier attitude to have about your …….